Hi Melissa, it sounds like you’re in a cycle of love-bombing with your ex, which makes sense why you’re asking yourself what is wrong with you. Remember, self-doubt is part of these cycles. Please reach out if you need extra support! 267-495-4951

Hi Teresa, Yes, they can be very difficult to be with. We are hopeful you are living a more peaceful life now that you’ve moved out.

Hi Andy, thank you for sharing your story! If you want to get extra support as you go through this, please do not hesitate to reach out! 267-495-4951

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I can so relate to this i’ve just split with a woman for the 40th time within a year, exhausted is an understatment, i have a constant twicth in my left eye and half the time what i type i look dyslexic or maybe i am i have no idea, had the push pull method at the beggining told she amd he husband was over as he was in the army, although when he came home brifly i was ghosted, and thought some thing was a miss and found messages that they never ended, so when i was driving her back from her uni, little did she know i had a good 2 hour converstation with her husband and pulled up to her house to get the truth, i left and felt i got of the merigoround then got messges from her husband saying he cheated first and that he was always gomma take the house and byding his time ect, she came round to mine saying i didnt know what he was like ect ect this was about 9 months ago and we got back together after that as i belived it, and found loads of stuff all through the year which i would be here forever to write, and with hiw exhasuted i am and how rubbish my spelling cones out it would proberly look like hyroglyth in the end, long story short i recently spoke to her ex again and had a 3 hour conversation this time, and found out she sent them messages of his phone while he was asleep, as she lies constantly even when proof is their and hets angry when found out and thats why we would break up all the time because of her lies and recently because of finding more lies i blocked her on every thing like i have done to stop all comunication, had takeaways deliverd to my house signed up for things on the internet, wpuld come round to my house bang on my door i would park my car in another street so she didnt know i was in, and after a week of that she come round and ripped my camera of the wall so i woukd respond, i really wish i just called the police as i rang and said i wanted money to be sent for the camrea she ripped of or am ringing the police, and she snaked her way around me again, and ive just blocked her again and its not gonna end until police are involved, i feel loads more relevied and happy when i have nothing to do with her, but she isnt ginna have that ☹

I feel so emotionally messed up. He’s been randomly sending me texts about how much he loves me after discarding me after 15 years of marriage. Saying all the things I wanted him to say then. Sometimes I actually think maybe we could be friends. What is wrong with me?

Hi Sherry! It’s apparent how much you love and care for your daughter and how concerned you are! These types of things are tricky because you don’t want to over-step and push away but you are worried that you may not be doing enough. Continuing to be a sounding board for her when she approaches you is always good. Continuing to build her up and let her know how great her future will be and that she is doing that on her own. Unfortunately, these things are complicated so it’s tough to say more without having more information. Please give us a call, we are happy to meet with you for a few sessions to help support you in supporting your daughter.

Lisa- thank you so much for your comment. We are honored to have the opportunity to bring some peace to those who have gone through this. Hopefully, we can work together to empower those who are impacted by love bombing!

Hi! I am a mom of 22 year old in a love bombing relationship. Any suggestions on how I can help her? She is kind of reaching out but does not answer text or calls when with him. She is living with him. Going to be a nurse in a year. So much ahead of her! Please advise!

Hi Miranda! Thank you for sharing everything that you did. Your question about loving someone who hurts you is a good starting point! While there isn’t a concrete answer to this as it’s different for everyone, we firmly believe that you can work to explore and understand this. Through answering this question for yourself, you can find your way to joy and happiness, however that may look for you. We are happy to help you in this exploration! Reach out at 267-495-4951 or info@thebetteryouinstitute.com

Hey Lisa! Wow, what an experience you had! It seems like you needed to write and cathart. If you need space for further processing, please reach out! We are here to help!

Hello –
Thank you for your comment 🙂 Love bombing is quite common, unfortunately! We are here to help you heal from that experience or manage co-parenting if you need!

Hello- Thank you for your comment. Relationships with narcissists can certainly be hard to navigate! We are here to offer you extra support in tough times if you need it!